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What I Was Really Avoiding: Jay Barbanel on Adoption, Therapy & Healing

Jay Barbanel, author of Finding Tico, unpacks what he spent two decades avoiding, and what it took to finally choose healing over silence.

The Darkness: Adoptees and Disenfranchised Grief
Kristen Kristen

The Darkness: Adoptees and Disenfranchised Grief

A dear friend said something the other day that made me feel seen. He said, β€œA southern woman is an unbridled force of nature, and that’s how you were born and who you are, no matter what’s happened.” So, I guess that’s where it all started.

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Siblings Reunited
Martha Martha

Siblings Reunited

Surreal. This is the word that comes to mind when I reflect on my reunion, from last year. Connecting with my birth siblings jolted me β€œout of the fog.”

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Holiday Breathing
Ana Ana

Holiday Breathing

They come and they go, every year, like clockwork. You’d think I'd be more prepared after 43 years because they come at the same time EVERY year.

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  • Most non-adopted people oversimplify and invalidate the grief of adoptees because they assume that our families are just like other families.

    Adoptee Land by Kristen, Adoptee Contributor

  • It’s such a curious thing how being relinquished is never talked about with sorrow; but instead with applaud for the adoptive parents.

    Adoption, Shame & Cocktail Parties by Amy, Adoptee Contributor

  • I played the role of being a chameleon; not realizing the toxicity of what I was doing in allowing people to mislabel me.

    Latina Mislabeled by Martha, Adoptee Contributor

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